I September is
being celebrated as the Season of Creation in some congregations. There is a lectionary for this season. Next year, after I complete a three year
cycle of the RCL, I will post ideas for this important season. To find resources now go to http://seasonofcreation.com/ .
RULES TELL
US WHO WE ARE!
I Several of today’s texts deal with the Law – or God’s rules as the children see it. At the beginning of the school year children
are learning the rules for their new classes, teams and clubs. The rules tell them who they are and how they
act in each situation. Knowing that is
important to them. Particularly the
gospel leads to complex adult conversations about the value of rules (legalism
vs. living by love). Children are not
ready for that conversation. They are
still learning the details of rules.
Looking at the content of the rules with the children enriches the
understanding of the adults who go on to ask their questions about legalism.
I Since today is also a Communion Sunday in many
congregations and at times reading the 10 Commandments has been part of the
communion liturgy, combine reading the Commandments with
James’ call to be doers
rather than just hearers of the Word.
There are several ways to do this:
1.
A leader reads
each commandment pausing after each one for the congregation to respond with
“Be doers of the word, not just hearers .”
2.
A leader reads
each commandment pausing after each one for the congregation to say a response
with motions.
We will hear it with our ears point to
ears
Understand it with our brains put hands
on top of head
Claim it with our hearts put hand on heart
Do it with our hands open hands with palms up
Do it with our feet stomp
each foot
And say it with our mouths move
finger from lips outward
3.
Do one of the
above responsive readings but using Jesus’ two great command. This would allow more time to delve into how
each of the two (rather than ten) can be acted on.
GOD BLESSES
ROMANTIC LOVE
Song of Solomon 2:8-13
I This is the only time The Song of Solomon appears in
the Revised Common Lectionary. So at
some point worship leaders may want to build an entire service around introducing the book and exploring its affirmation of
romantic love. Children
as well as adults benefit from this affirmation. It offers them a high view of intimate
relationships which they do not often get in other places. If they have loving parents, it affirms that
relationship and makes the children feel even more secure in their parents’
base for their family. Do take care to
remind everyone that like all the good gifts God gives us, we sometimes cannot
make them work. Divorce and fusses are
sad realities.
I There is no point in
presenting the idea that this is a metaphor for Christ and the church. The children simply will not get it. They take the poems as the love songs
intended by the writer.
I To highlight the interplay in today’s
reading,
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Have it read by a
married couple. The readers could be any
age or you could have the whole text read twice once by a younger couple and
again by an older couple.
Woman – verses 8-10a
Man – verses 10b - 13
2.
Have the passage
read by all the couples in the congregation with the men and women reading the
verses as above. Children love watching
the interaction between their parents as they read.
Note: Yes, there could be some giggling. Isn’t there often with love poems! Point this out and enjoy it.
Note: Yes, there could be some giggling. Isn’t there often with love poems! Point this out and enjoy it.
I This could also be an opportunity for couples to
reaffirm marriage vows. This is of
course mainly for the couples. But
again, the children slurp up witnessing their parents doing this. It also presents them with a high view of
marriage to which to aspire for themselves.
Psalm 45:1-2, 6-9
This is a prayer a poet wrote
for the king for the king’s wedding day.
If you introduce it in this way, challenge worshipers, especially
children, to write a prayer for someone they know on a
special day for them. They could write a prayer for the birthday of
a family member or friend. Or, they
could write a Back to School prayer for a friend or a teacher. If you are exploring the Song of Solomon,
they could write a prayer for their parents for their anniversary. Encourage them to write the prayer on good
paper, maybe decorate it, and give it to the friend – just as the psalmist
probably shared his prayer with the king.
If you provide the paper and markers, this could be sermon seatwork.
GOOD
PEOPLE DO GOOD DEEDS
Deuteronomy 4:1-2, 6-9
The basic message of this
text is that good people keep good rules. Children who are interested in the rules of
all sorts of different groups are interested in this reality. We can tell them that if we look at people we
admire, we often find that they follow rules that are important to them and
look good to us. A really good soccer
player knows the rules of the game so well that he or she knows what she can
and cannot do at any point in the game.
A scout learns the scout laws in order to know how to live as a
scout. On the other hand, children
sometimes form clubs that have rules saying you have to hate the opposite sex
or must shoplift or must never speak to certain people or kinds of people. When you hear a person’s or a group’s rules,
you often know whether you want to be part of that group. Simply encourage children to pay attention to
the rules of others. Or, take it to
another level by reading the 10 Commandments or Jesus’ two great commandments
as the rules Christians follow.
Psalm 15
I This psalm is easier to follow if verses 1 and 5 b
are read by one reader and the remaining verse are read by the whole
congregation. In the introduction note
the first reader’s question and urge listeners to the reader’s comment after
hearing the response.
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Reader:
Lord, who may
enter your Temple?
Who may worship on Zion, your sacred
hill?
Congregation:
Those who obey
God in everything
and always do what is right,
whose words are true and sincere,
and who do not slander others.
They do no wrong to their friends
nor spread rumours about their
neighbours.
They despise
those whom God rejects,
but honour those who obey the Lord.
They always do what they promise,
no matter how much it may cost.
They make loans
without charging interest
and cannot be bribed to testify
against the innocent.
Reader:
Whoever does these things will always be secure.
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James 1:17-27
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streamlines this reading in
a way that is helpful to children. It
omits the mirror image and the teaching about the dangers of the tongue which is
explored more fully in Proper 19.
James 1:17-18,
21-22, 27
Every good gift and every perfect
present comes from heaven; it comes down from God, the Creator of the heavenly
lights, who does not change or cause darkness by turning. By his own will he brought us into being
through the word of truth, so that we should have first place among all his
creatures. So get rid of every filthy
habit and all wicked conduct. Submit to God and accept the word that he plants
in your hearts, which is able to save you.
Do not deceive
yourselves by just listening to his word; instead, put it into practice. What
God the Father considers to be pure and genuine religion is this: to take care
of orphans and widows in their suffering and to keep oneself from being
corrupted by the world.
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I The key verse and main thing children grasp is “Be
doers of the word, not just hearers.” To
explore its meaning start with the frequent retort, “I
know that” when a child is confronted with an obvious fact, e.g.
you love your little brother or it is dangerous to play in the street. What follows is generally questions about if
you know that why did you do what you just did?!!!! Parents and other adults agree with James
that your actions must match what you know or say.
I Explain what a rough life widows and orphans faced in
Jesus’ day. Detail ways James’ hearers
would have needed to take care of
widows and orphans. Then,
ask who are the people on the edge or in need of our care today, e.g. any
younger child, someone just learning a game you know well, families who can't get enough food, etc. Then put verse 27 into words that include
those people as well as the widows and orphans.
Mark 7:1-8, 14-15, 21-23
I To emphasize the story call
people forward to help read scripture about a picnic, give them
some trail mix to eat as you read the first few verses. As they eat point out the difference between
clean hands and undefiled hands Undefiled hands have been washed with ritual
words, clean hands are just clean. (This
explanation takes the place of reading verses 3-4.) Invite them to keep eating as you read the
scripture. The scribes should be seated
near the very front of the congregation and come from there to pose their
question.
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Narrator/Jesus
as scribes rise to look questioningly at those on the steps: Now when the
Pharisees and some of the scribes who had come from Jerusalem gathered around
him, they noticed that some of his disciples were eating with defiled hands,
that is, without washing them. So the Pharisees and the scribes asked him,
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or 3 Scribes one who speaks: Why
do your disciples not live according to the tradition of the elders, but eat
with defiled hands?
Narrator/Jesus
standing up among the munchers to speak first to the Scribes
Isaiah prophesied rightly about you
hypocrites, as it is written,
‘This people honors me with their
lips,
but their hearts are far from me;
in vain do they worship me,
teaching human precepts as doctrines.’
You abandon the commandment of God and hold to
human tradition.
Speaking past the scribes to the congregation
Listen to me, all of you, and understand: there is nothing outside a person that by going in can defile, but the things that come out are what defile. For it is from within, from the human heart, that evil intentions come: fornication, theft, murder, adultery, avarice, wickedness, deceit, licentiousness, envy, slander, pride, folly. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.”
Listen to me, all of you, and understand: there is nothing outside a person that by going in can defile, but the things that come out are what defile. For it is from within, from the human heart, that evil intentions come: fornication, theft, murder, adultery, avarice, wickedness, deceit, licentiousness, envy, slander, pride, folly. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.”
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I Be clear with the children that Jesus
is not saying that we do not have to wash our hands. Jesus is saying God doesn’t love us because
we do rituals about everything.
I Explore a variety of ways the words clean and dirty are used. A scout is to be clean in thought, word and
deed. A person who has no drugs in their
body is clean. A person with no criminal
record is clean. Then there are dirty
words, dirty pictures, dirty names, etc.
All of these uses of clean and dirty are metaphors, but are used so
commonly that children quickly grasp that clean is another word for good and dirty is another word for bad. Mark is saying that we are called
not to be spic and span clean, but to stay away from all the bad stuff.
I “Create in me a clean
heart, O God” from Psalm
51 is a good prayer for today. If you
worked with it in connection with the David and Bathsheba story, recall that. Then, connect the verse to the gospel picnic to insist that God is more
interested in clean hearts than clean hands.
Create a responsive prayer of confession in which the congregation
responds to each confession with “Create in me a clean heart, O God.”
I like what you do with the Song of Solomon but find that it really priveleges heterosexuality...for those in a open and affirming congregations, why not get a number of people who have been in long-term committed relationships do it...as I recall from seminary days, it is unlikely that the two depicted in this were actually married (after all Solomon had 300 wives and 700 concubines!)
ReplyDelete-nelia Beth, I'm glad you weighed in. I stewed about that same issue. The reason I did as I did was that I could not picture any of the homosexual couples in my congregation reading these verses in public. Actually, I can think of a number of heterosexual couples who would also hesitate. Anyone else have any insights on this one?
ReplyDeleteIs there no such thing as the sanctity of marriage anymore? A long-term committed relationship is not the same thing as a marriage. Is there no such thing as sexual sin anymore?
ReplyDeleteThis blog is all about how we include children in the congregation's worship. Doing that often leads us to explore and clarify our adult commitments and beliefs. That is a good thing. But, the people who visit the blog have many different beliefs and I have mine which are often obvious and for which I offer no apology. So, in order to make space for all of us with all of our diversity to work together on behalf of the children, I want to avoid becoming a platform for discussion of adult issues.
DeleteI have been reading many commentaries on the Song of Songs passage and there is concensus that the couple in the poem were NOT married but WERE faithful to one another. Therefore, any hermeneutical application of the text could allow for a number of pairings between committed partners, even and maybe especially my 80-something year old congregants who are "living in sin" (their words). Children can see and understand the beauty of loyal and enduring partnerships between best friends. Older children who can compare the song of songs with the garden of eden story may be interested to see the similarities between relationships gone wrong (Eden) and relationships restored (songs).
ReplyDeleteI think you might be stretching it hoping the children will make the connection you describe in the last sentence. Teenagers, yes. Children, I doubt it.
DeleteYou don't know my fifth grade genius!
ReplyDeleteYou're right - but I wish I did because I love fifth grade geniuses. They are pure delight and make such creative connections between all sorts of things! Just remember that not all fifth graders are geniuses.
ReplyDeleteBless you, Carolyn for all this hard, creative, and fruitful work and for your pastoral response above.
ReplyDeleteAmen
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