This week is World
Communion Sunday in most congregations.
For children that means raising awareness that Christians all around the
world are one big family. We may have
skin of different colors, wear different clothes, speak different languages,
and do all sorts of different things, but we are all baptized and we all share
communion. Children enjoy imagining
people in tropical jungles, way up in the mountains, on the beach, etc. all
eating bread and drinking the cup to remember and honor Jesus. Go to Proper 22 (Year A) for general ideas about
drawing children into the congregation’s celebration of this day.
This week is also The Festival of Saint Francis. Many congregations celebrate this day by blessing
the pets on Sunday. Next year (after I
have completed the lectionary cycle J)
I promise to do a post on this along with posts on the season of Creation.
Job 1:1; 2:1-10
L The Children’s Bible in 365 Stories, by Mary
Batchelor, provides a children’s version of the story of Job in three sections that
match the first, third and fourth readings in the RCL series. (RCL has no account of the friends’ bogus
comfort.) These stories also fill in
many of the details omitted by the lectionary readings. I actually prefer this division of the story
and would use it rather than the RCL divisions.
It would be possible to read them as the scripture lesson for each
week. It would also be possible to turn
them into readers’ theater. Create the
script by assigning the paragraphs of it to the appropriate readers and omitting
all the “he saids” and the one “she said”.
Staging could be as simple as readers standing in different spots in the
chancel or include planned movements and a few simple props or costumes. Presenting it is a good worship leadership
assignment for a youth or adult class or a team of five thespians. The Narrator, Job, God could be read by the
same person each week.
“Troubles
for Job” tells the story of all Job’s woes.
It can be read in 3 minutes and would need a Narrator, God, Satan, Job
and Job’s wife.
“Cheering
Job Up?” summarizes the arguments of Job’s friends. It can be read in 3 minutes and calls for a Narrator,
Friend 1, Friend 2, Friend 3 (the
fourth person) and Job.
“God
Talks to Job” recounts Job’s conversation with God. It can also be read in 3 minutes and would
need only 3 readers – a Narrator, God, and Job.
L If you plan to worship around Job’s story
only once, “The Story of Job” in The Family Story Bible, by
Ralph Milton, condenses the entire story into two pages that can be read in 5
minutes. If I were reading it, I would
edit it here and there to reflect my understanding of the story. But, the basic format is solid.
L Especially if you are going to make this into a
worship series, children need to know a few things about the book of Job.
First,
and most importantly, they need to be told straight out that this
is not a story about real things that happened to real people. It is a made-up story that people
have told for thousands of years to think about why people suffer. God would never kill children to test their
father or make a person sick just to see what the person would do. God is not like that.
One
way to introduce this literary form is to point out that the Bible is a library
of many kinds of literature. There are
letters, poems, court records, and important made up stories that people have
told each as they try to understand the world. This is one of the latter.
Older
children might understand the comparison to “The Tortoise and the Hare” or some
other fable designed to make a point.
Satan
needs an introduction. To most children Satan is the same as the
Devil and is evil. Satan tries to lead
people to do bad things. Satan is also
the “president of Hell.” In Job Satan is
not trying to lead people to do bad things.
Instead Satan is the tester, the evaluator. He is like a sparring partner who boxes with
an athlete to push him to do better. His
question in Job is whether Job will only love God so long as he has an easy
life.
Related point: Children see t shirts that say “the Devil made me do
it” and recognize its claim that the wearer is not responsible for what he or
she does. The book of Job insists that
the Devil can’t make us do anything. We,
like Job, are our own bosses and can decide what we do and say in any situation.
L Job knows what the writer of Hebrews also knows. God/Jesus is awesome, bigger than anything we
can imagine, and would be dangerous if God was not so loving. Older children can be directed to this
truth. God is not like an over the top
grandparent who will give whatever we want.
We don’t love God just when things are going great for us. We can pray, “God I need…” and “God, thank
you for…”, but must also pray “God, I don’t understand…” and “God, help me get
through…”
L Children’s books that parallel Job’s story include:
Alexander
and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day, by Judith Viorst, begins “I went to sleep with gum
in my mouth and now there’s gum in my hair and when I got out of bed this
morning I tripped on the skateboard and by mistake I dropped my sweater in the
sink while the water was running and I could tell it was going be a terrible,
horrible, no good, very bad day.” And,
he was correct. The book recounts all
the awful things that happened to this little kid in a single day. In the end his mother reassures him that some
days are just like that. Most children
know this book and love it. Though
Alexander’s woes are not as serious as Job’s, they can be a good introduction
to Job’s woes and to the question about why there are days like that. It is too long to read in its entirety in
owrship. But, citing one or two pages,
and listing in your own words all the other things that went wrong gets the
point across and piques children’s curiosity to listen to what happened to Job
on his terrible, horrible, no good, very bad days. This book is almost surely available in your
public library – if it is in.
A Series of Unfortunate Events: The Bad Beginning, by Lemony Snicket, bears a letter to the reader on the back cover of the first of 13 books in the series. It is a good introduction to the series and parallels the situation of Job for children.
A Series of Unfortunate Events: The Bad Beginning, by Lemony Snicket, bears a letter to the reader on the back cover of the first of 13 books in the series. It is a good introduction to the series and parallels the situation of Job for children.
Dear Reader,
I’m sorry to say that the book you are holding in your hands is extremely
unpleasant. It tells an unhappy tale
about three very unlucky children. Even
though they are charming and clever, the Baudelaire siblings lead lives filled
with misery and woe. From the very first
page of this book, when the children are at the beach and receive terrible
news, continuing on through the entire story, disaster lurks at their
heels. One might say they are magnets
for misfortune.
In this short book alone, the three youngsters encounter a greedy and
repulsive villain, itchy clothing, a disastrous fire, a plot to steal their
fortune, and cold porridge for breakfast.
It is my sad duty to write down these unpleasant tales, but there is
nothing stopping you from putting this book down at once and reading something
happy, if you prefer that sort of thing.
With all due respect,
Lemony Snicket
Psalm 26
If this is introduced as a
prayer Job might have prayed while sitting miserably scratching his sores,
children will catch an occasional phrase.
Genesis 2:18-24
AThis passage could be
tied to the gospel discussion about divorce or to Psalm 8 and the Hebrews
comments on human responsibility for the world.
AIf you focus
on human responsibility for the world, try one of two stories from Does God Have a Big Toe, by Marc
Gellman.
“Partners” describes how God got the world “almost finished”
then told people to take over as partners.
Adam asked for and got a definition of partner that fits with the
picture in psalm 8.
“Adam’s
Animals” is a somewhat longer
story and explores Adam’s difficulties naming the animals with lots of comical
missteps before he decides to let the animals tell him what they are. Introduce this story with comments about how
knowing a pet’s name gives you the power to call the pet and tell the pet what
to do. It also gives us the
responsibility to care for the pet you named.
This story connects us to all the animals in the world in the same way.
AAsk young artists in
advance to draw pictures of animals.
Make a collage of their pictures for the cover of the printed worship
order. You can even fill the margins of
other pages with animals.
AIf you read
this with Mark’s gospel, be
careful. Explain that this story tells
what God’s plan for marriage is. AND,
note that we often fail to make that plan happen. When we fail God still loves us. More on this in the section on Mark below.
Psalm 8
Invite the whole congregation
to echo the worship leader in reading this psalm with interspersed comments,
song snippets, and hand motions.
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Psalm 8 Echo Reading
O
Lord, our Lord,
your
greatness is seen in all the world!
“This is my father’s world”
(sing this )
Your praise reaches up to the heavens;
Praise the Lord! (LOUD)
It
is sung by children and babies.
Praise
the Lord! (LOUDER)
You are safe and secure from all your enemies;
You stop anyone who opposes you.
When
I look at the sky (sweep the sky with
arm),
which
you (look up) have made,
at the moon (form circle around your head with arms)
and the stars (sprinkle the sky with stars with your fingers),
which you set in their places-
and the stars (sprinkle the sky with stars with your fingers),
which you set in their places-
What
are human beings, that you think of them; (make
a questioning gesture)
What are men that you
think of them? (point to boys)
What are women that
you think of them? (point to girls)
mere mortals, that you
care for them? (hands out to include all)
Yet
you made them inferior only to yourself;
You crowned them (make
yourself a crown with your hands) with glory and honor.
You
appointed them rulers over everything you made;
In
charge of everything you made
Responsible
for everything you made,
You placed them over all creation:
sheep
and cattle,
and the wild animals too;
the
birds and the fish and the creatures in the seas.
Air
we breathe and pollute (take a deep
breath)
Food
for many or a few (lick your lips with
satisfaction)
Energy
to keep us warm and moving (hug self to
keep warm)
O
Lord, our Lord, (throw hands up toward the sky)
your greatness is seen
in all the world!
Amen.
Based
on the TEV translation
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Hebrews1:1-4; 2:5-12
V This text about Jesus the Christ needs a little
organizing and restating for the children.
Basically it is saying that…
Jesus
was one with God at the beginning of everything and will be one with God after
everything ends.
In Jesus
of Nazareth God lived among us as a person and allowed himself to be crucified.
Jesus
is God in human skin. Everything we know
about Jesus tells us what God is like.
Jesus
Christ forgives us.
V Do a little worship education. Instead of just reading the Apostles’ Creed in
unison, focus on the phrases about Jesus in the Creed. Read through those phrases commenting very
briefly on each one. Then reread the
phrases pausing after each one for the congregation to respond, “Jesus is Lord!”
V Use this text to connect the story of the Old Testament with
the New Testament. Hold a Bible
open to the Table of Contents, even ask worshipers to open their pew
Bibles. VERY briefly, point out familiar
Old Testament stories about how God spoke to people, e.g. in Exodus we hear how
God saved the people from slavery. Then,
point to the four gospels that tell us about how God spoke to us in Jesus, Acts
that describes how the first Christians tried to follow Jesus, and the letters
that show us what people were thinking about God and Jesus then. Finally, direct everyone to Hebrews 1 and
read the text for the day. Close lifting
the Bible saying, “The Word of the Lord” to which the people respond, “Thanks
be to God.”
GLORY!
V To help the children grasp all the glory ascribed to
Jesus in Hebrews begin a poster today that you add to each week you read from
Hebrews. Today’s word is GLORY! This text summarizes Jesus’ glory. Children often see Jesus mainly as their powerful
friend and supporter. This text insists
that Jesus is also much bigger than just that.
Jesus was there at the beginning and will be there at the end, Jesus
judges the whole world. Print GLORY! in
large letters somewhere on a banner or big poster in gold metallic pen. Leave the center of the page open to add “LORD!” in the
center in glitter pen on the last day of your series.
Note from the end of this series: If you try this growing poster/banner, look ahead now. It got more complicated as I worked through all SEVEN weeks of Hebrews. Here is what Lou Pennebaker ended up doing with it:
Eternal
Broken
foR
Everyone
Worship
JeSus
Thanks for letting me share your plan, Lou!
Note from the end of this series: If you try this growing poster/banner, look ahead now. It got more complicated as I worked through all SEVEN weeks of Hebrews. Here is what Lou Pennebaker ended up doing with it:
Last month I emailed you regarding your Hebrew Jesus poster
idea. For the last 5 weeks I have been using one or two words each week for the
children’s message in worship as we have followed the Lectionary through
Hebrews. It has been a challenge and has taken me all 5 weeks to completely
figure it all out! (I have changed the upcoming words several times.) Like you
noted in your blog the verses get very repetitive. I appreciated all your notes
each week in your blog and was able to incorporate some of them over the 5
weeks. I was able to use one or two words each week so that when we end this
Sunday we will have spelled “Hebrews” (although I had to take a little creative
license to do so).
For reasons specific to the life of our congregation we
began a few weeks late with Hebrews 5:1-10 on 10/21 with High Priest.
The following week (Heb. 7:23-28) we added Eternal. The third week was
Communion Sunday (Heb. 9:11-14) so I used Broken (I had considered Blood
but decided Broken was better for children and tied it into the words
spoken at communion). After that I had to get creative. The 4th week
(Heb. 9:24-28) was foR Everyone. And this Sunday (Heb. 10:19-25) we will
add Worship JeSus as our response to Jesus who is our Eternal
High Priest who was Broken foR Everyone.
The final Poster looks like this:
High PriestEternal
Broken
foR
Everyone
Worship
JeSus
Thanks for letting me share your plan, Lou!
V World Communion Sunday makes this a good day to point
out that Christ is the host at the Table. In the Presbyterian rite we say “this table
is not my table, it is not your table, it is not the table of NAME OF CHURCH,
it is not the Table of the Presbyterian Church.
It is the Table of Jesus Christ and…” Perhaps have the children or the whole congregation
echo each phrase with you. Briefly
expound on the privilege of the host to decide who to invite. Name places and people around the world who
are joining you at Jesus’ Table today. If
you use projectors in worship, project photos of people from all around the world as
communion is served.
V “Come Christians Join to Sing” and “When
Morning Gilds the Sky” are good ways to sing of Christ’s glory
today. Point out the repeated phrases
and urge even non-readers to sing them.
V If you are worshiping around theme of the environment
perhaps celebrating St. Francis, take time to point out and enjoy the
connection between Hebrews and Psalm 8.
Read Hebrews 2:6 -8a emphasizing “as someone once said.” Have worshipers hold one finger in their pew
Bible and turn to Psalm 8 (I’d give them
page numbers.) Read verses 4-6 saying, "guess who is the someone who said that!" Then invite the congregation to read all of Psalm 8 – possibly using the
script above.
Mark 10:2-16
A This text includes two
rather separate stories. To emphasize
that and to be sure both stories get heard, have them read by two separate readers. Ask an older child to read verses 13-16
about Jesus blessing the children.
To
add a visual element have several readers move through 3 scenes in the
chancel. Start at one side of
the chancel with Jesus, a disciple or two, and a Pharisee or two for verses 2-9. Jesus and the disciples then step to the
center for verses 10-12. A woman and
some young children approach from the other side as the disciples step between
them and Jesus. Jesus steps through the
disciples for verses 14-15. A narrator
speaking from the lectern can knit it all together.
A If you are going to
speak at length about this hard teaching about divorce remember
that children who have experienced divorce are listening too. They are as hurt by divorce as the adults are
– maybe more hurt. And, they are even
more likely than the hurting adults to hear Jesus’ statement as proof that they
are no good. So, it is critical to make
two points to them.
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marriage to be permanent. Refer to the
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<!--[endif]-->Divorce is a
failure. Children need to be constantly
told that their parents’ divorce is their parents’ fault not theirs. (Many children at some point feel they are to
blame.) Once they are clear that divorce
is their parents’ failure, they then get defensive for them. So, the church needs to help them understand and
live with what their parents have done.
We can tell them that divorce is just one more sin – like greed and
lying. One way we know divorce is wrong
is that it causes so much hurt for everyone involved. But, we are humans and we all sin in lots of
ways. We know it is wrong to be greedy,
but we all have greedy, grabby moments.
We know it is wrong to lie, but we all do. All marriages start with high hopes of
lasting forever, but some just do not make it.
That is sad, but true. The good
news is that God forgives us for being greedy and for lying and for our divorces.
COMMENT: I am certain I’ve not got this last paragraph right
for all people. It’s my best stab at
it. I trust you to gather from it what
looks right to you and go from there.
This is hard stuff in today’s world!
N Children hear in verses 13-16 that Jesus
likes children. They enjoy the
fact that while adults tell them to grow up every day, Jesus tells the adults
to be like children. There is a lot more
going on in the story for the adults, but for children it is that simple.
N This is a good day to pray for the children of the
church – and to do so in a way that the children will hear. A general prayer for the precious children of the
congregation stuck in the middle of lots of other petitions will be missed
entirely by those children. So, in smaller congregations
name all the children. In larger
congregations offer a prayer for each way or group in which the children participate
in the church, e.g. “Lord, be with the children as they read the Bible with
their teachers. Help them listen and
understand the important stories in it.”
N And of course, it is a great day to sing “Jesus
Loves Me” If you do, remember that
older children consider it a baby song and resent being asked to sing it with
just children. So, invite the whole
congregation to sing the song together from the hymnal. Doing so helps them begin to reclaim the song
as worthy of keeping as they continue to grow up.
Pastors thinking about divorce should read Andrew Root's excellent article in Christianity Today: http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2012/july-august/why-divorce-calls-childrens-existence-into-question.html
ReplyDeleteCarolyn - please know that EVERY week, you bless me and the families who are part of the ministry at our church by your work. I am so grateful.
ReplyDeleteYour comment about eating the grapes and moving on with the children totally delighted me today. Thank you.
Thanks for that link, Nathan. Helpful thoughts from Andrew Root.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your insights. We are developing our liturgy so as to be more intentional in our inclusion of children and adults with leanring dificulties.
ReplyDeleteMoran taing (as we say in Gaelic here in Scotland)
Dugald Cameron