In highly liturgical churches
the fourth Sunday of Lent is Laetare Sunday
(or Rejoice Sunday) because of its focus on God’s grace. To highlight this and look forward to Easter
in just three weeks, take a peek at the buried “Alleluia!” and note that it is
still there. Even practice an alleluia
song (Praise Ye the Lord Alleluia?) in whispers.
There are at least two
crosses that might be featured this week:
This comes from the web page of a Catholic diocese. I suspect they would be glad for any of us to use it in our worship. |
A crucifix (cross
with Christ hanging on it) reminds us that God loved us enough to live among as
Jesus and to forgive when we killed Jesus.
Every time we look at it we remember how very much God loves us and all people. In many protestant
congregations this is an opportunity to introduce a cross that is important to
Catholic and many other Christians. If
you don’t have one, borrow one (crucifix jewelry is an option) or display a
picture of one (I found this one Googling “crucifix images"). If the crosses in your church are empty,
compare them with their message that God raised Jesus from death to the
crucifixes noting the valuable message in each one.
This is my photo. Feel free to use it. |
Artists
in Central America paint crosses with
pictures of lots of people on them. Display one of these crosses and ponder
John’s insistence that when Jesus was raised up (on the cross) he drew all the
people of the world to him.
Numbers 21:4-9
U This is a very
simple healing story AND when combined with the other readings for the day is
an invitation to identify all the snakey
things in our lives.
Display a stop sign and a warning sign and a danger sign noting the mean
of each. Next, show a picture of a snake and explain that for many people just
seeing a snake says warning, danger, stop! Recall the snake in the Fall in Eden and note that from then on snakes have been symbols of bad things, evil. The snakes in this story are sent by God
because the people were not trusting God and were complaining to Moses that God
wasn’t doing enough for them. God sent
snakes, symbols of evil, to bite them and remind them of their snakey
evil. Identify some of the snakey things
we do to ourselves and each other today.
Then recall the end of the story.
God saved the people. He healed
them from both the snake bites and their complaining. That will set the stage for John’s comments
about Jesus being like the snake on the pole.
Jesus saves us from all the snakiness.
Do
remember that some children, especially some boys, really like snakes. Assure them that snakes are not bad, but that
they are used as a symbol of evil.
Psalm 107:1-3, 17-22
(RC = Psalm 137:1-6)
U This is a
psalm pilgrims sang as they climbed the long steep hill to Jerusalem to worship
at the Temple. It was like some of the
songs we sing on long car trips today.
Point out the introduction and the format of each verse. Identify the people in each stanza: travelers
lost in the desert, prisoners, the sick, and sailors on the sea. Then invite
worshipers to read with you the parts the whole group of pilgrims traveling
together would have sung with one reader reading the verse about
the sick. To really get into the road
trip aspect of the psalm have the congregation stand and walk in place as they
read.
All: verses 1-3
One: verses 17-20
All: verse 21-22
U Read
these verses after reading the Numbers story. Suggest that
some of the pilgrims might have thought about the snake-bit people looking at
the bronze snake on the pole and being healed. It is also a psalm those snake-bit folks might have recited after being cured. And, a good prayer for us when we
recover from illness.
Ephesians 2:1-10 (RC = 4-10)
Needless to say children will
not follow this as it is read. It is
filled with abstract words that are connected in long complicated
thoughts. But there are ideas in it older
children appreciate when unpacked for them by worship leaders.
U Even
children know what it feels like to be “stuck,” to feel like or wish you were
dead, to be hopeless. They get stuck in ongoing arguments with
siblings, caught in the crossfire of changing friendships, listen fearfully as
parents fight, worry about finances if the main money maker is unemployed,
survive an endless difficult school year, sense that everyone else is somehow
“more” than me, and more. Without being
suicidal, they can say “I wish I was dead.”
With help older children can even recognize that their deadness is as
much their own fault as the fault of those around them. And, they can admit that they can’t make the
changes needed.
Try
a confession in which ways we are stuck in evil and feel dead are described one
by one, e.g. the lies we tell, the mean things we say without even meaning to,
etc. After each one, the congregation
responds, “It makes us feel dead.” The
assurance is “God, loves us and brings us new life, new possibilities, ways
out. Thanks be to God.”
U Two child-accessible
hymns that capture this text and the general theme of the day are:
“There’s A Wideness In God’s Mercy” – This short hymn includes difficult words for
children. Point out the very similar
words mercy and love asking worshipers to find them in the song. Then put the verses into your own words and
invite everyone to sing. With this
introduction, children are able to follow and begin knowing this hymn.
“Help Us Accept Each Other” expresses Jesus’ and Paul’s ideas in terms of
acceptance rather than salvation. Every
child knows about the desire to be accepted by God and other people. Point out “acceptance” everywhere it appears
in the hymn. Or, direct people to verse
3 which summarizes the rest of the song.
Read it together and/or walk through it putting it into your words. With this help children will try to sing at
least verse 3.
“Let
Your acceptance change us.
So
that we may be moved
in living situations to do the truth in
love;
to
practice Your acceptance until we know by heart
the table of forgiveness and laughter’s
healing art.”
John 3:14-21
U John 3:16 may
be the most famous verse in the Bible, but unless your congregation encourages
children to memorize verses, don’t count on
them recognizing it.
U Today’s crosses
are most helpful in unpacking these verses for children.
The crucifix
invites us to explain that there was nothing magic about the cross, but that
God loved us so much that Jesus died on a cross and forgave us for it.
Display
a Central American cross to talk about how
God loved and drew to God all the people in the world.
Give
each worshiper a paper featuring a large empty cross shape. (Maybe it is the back page of the order of
worship handout.) During the sermon
invite them to draw pictures of or write the names of
people Jesus died for on the cross. Identify and challenge them to identify a
variety of people including themselves and some people they don’t particularly
like.
U Children
feel judged by many adults in their lives – coaches, parents, teachers, even worship leaders. Especially this late in the school year
students who do not do well in school feel trapped and judged by many of their
teachers. It is a very “stuck,” hopeless
place to be. John assures children that
God is not interested in judging them.
That is very good news.
U Children’s literature
explores unlimited love in several classic books in which children repeatedly
ask a parent whether the parent would still love them if they did a variety of
bad deeds. The parents, like God, all
insist that they would love the children no matter what. That is grace.
The Runaway Bunny, by Margaret Wise Brown, is a conversation between a young bunny and
his mother in which the child threatens to run away in all sorts of ways. To each plan the mother describes how she
would come after him. In the end the
child decides that he might as well stay home.
(Reading time: 3 minutes). I once
heard a fine preacher give a very erudite sermon about God’s grace which he
concluded by reading this story and saying “That is grace. Amen.”
In Mama, Do You Love Me? , by Barbara Joosse,
an Inuit girl describes all sorts of terrible things she might do and her
mother insists that she would love her.
The same story is told in the Maasai culture between a father and son in
Papa, Do You Love Me?. (For some reason, I prefer the Inuit version
– maybe because I read it first or love the art.)
U Children
understand about hiding under the covers or in a dark closet to do something
they should not do. In North America on
the first Sunday after the change to Daylight Savings time they are also aware
of being able to be outside in the evening light longer they could during the
winter. All this gives them good connections to the light and dark in verses 19-21.