> The heroes and heroines of today’s stories put love
into action. They do not just feel love,
they do love. Illustrate and explore the
fact that loving involves using our bodies by helping the children form the letters for the word LOVE with their bodies. Shape each letter discussing it, then spell
out the word LOVE without pause before sending children back to their seats.
L each
person sits up straight on the floor with
legs out straight and arms above the
head
Look where we are sitting
– on the floor. Love means being willing
to get down wherever needed with people.
Ruth sat with Naomi in Moab.
O form
big Os with arms in front of you like a big
hug
Loving begins with caring
about/ hugging people
V in
pairs put feet toe to toe and lean back to form
the letter V
Point out that people have
to trust each other to love each other, Ruth trusted Naomi’s plan, the widow in
Zarephath trusted Elijah’s promise…
E Each
person sits on floor with legs straight out,
one arm bent at the elbow then
straight out at
the waist and the other arm straight out at
shoulder height.
This is harder to get into
position. Loving is hard work. We have to be willing to glean in the hot
sun, share our last meal, maybe even drop all we have in the offering plate.
> Before singing Take My Life and Let It Be Consecrated,
direct worshipers to the first and fifth verses (“Take my life…” and “Take my
will…”). Suggest that they could be sung
by Ruth, Naomi, Boaz, and the two widows in today’s stories – and by us if we
will. Urge worshipers to pay special
attention to those verses as they sing today.
> Something to ponder: These
stories share a theme of giving 100% rather than just a little here and a
little there. Ruth committed herself
100% to Naomi and Boaz. The widow gave
all she had. Elisha’s widow shared her
last meal. Adults and older youth
struggle with how much of themselves and their resources to commit to different
things. There is a tension between the
call to live a well-balanced life (a little of a lot of things) and a life 100%
committed to one central thing. Children
however are at a different point. They
are often quite willing to commit 100% to almost anything without being able to
recognize the consequences of their commitment.
They do what feels right at the moment.
Adults around them work to help them learn to evaluate commitments
wisely. I know of no easy, cute way to
deal with this. But, it may be worth
thinking about in sermon preparation. If
nothing else it complicates things a little – actually a little more.
The Texts
for Today
Ruth 3:1-5; 4:13-17
> This is the second of two readings about Ruth. If you used the All Saints readings on
November 1, you will need to tell the whole story of Ruth today. For a concise telling of the story try ”Two Brave Women” in The Family Story
Bible, by Ralph Milton. It
covers the main movements in the story, but summarizes the harvest festival
with “as Boaz and Ruth got to know each other, they fell in love and got
married” and omits the sandal transaction entirely. It can be read aloud in 5 minutes.
> If you are devoting two Sunday’s to Ruth or if you
want to explore in more detail the harvest festival and the sandal transaction
(which are omitted buy the RCL), review the story from last week then read “Ruth Finds
“Work” and “Happy Endings” in The Children’s
Bible in 365 Stories, by Mary Batchelor.
(They can be read in a total of 5 minutes.)
Poussin, Nicolas, 1594?-1665. Summer, or, Ruth and Boaz, from Art in the Christian Tradition, a project of the Vanderbilt Divinity Library, Nashville, TN. http://diglib.library.vanderbilt.edu/act-imagelink.pl?RC=54182 [retrieved October 5, 2015]. Original source: http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Nicolas_Poussin_043.jpg |
> Look at this picture of gleaning. Point out the owner and the workers.
Describe some of the work being done.
Point out Ruth and her begging position.
Describe her job of picking up grain that the very efficient works left
behind in or at the edge of the field.
Ponder how long it would take to gather up a sheaf like those the
workers could cut with a single swipe of their blade. Then describe the threshing of the wheat to
make flour with which to make bread.
(This could be illustrated by using a dried wheat stalk from a craft
store to show how small the wheat kernels are in comparison to the stalk.) Insist that Ruth and Naomi had to do a lot of
work to get a little bit to eat.
> Many youth groups have gone gleaning in
support of the local food bank. If your
youth have gleaned, refer to what they did to explain what Ruth did to feed
herself and Naomi.
> If you focused on family love last week, expand that love to the love of
the stranger or outsider this week. This story is in the Bible because it insists
that God loves all people, not just the Jews or “people like us.” So, if you did not do so last week, display a
map of the Old Testament lands. Point to
Bethlehem identifying it as the place Naomi started out and the place to which
she returned with Ruth. Then point to
Moab and note that people who lived in Bethlehem thought the people who lived
in Moab were dirty, dumb, and “not as good as we are.” They ignored people from Moab when they came
around and treated them poorly. Imagine
how people in Bethlehem treated Ruth when she appeared with Naomi. Then, read what happened repeating and
reveling in the last statement that the great King David’s great grandmother
was a woman from Moab.
>
Identify and ask worshipers to
identify who gets treated like Moabites
today. Ask what the Bible is telling us
about those people. Pray both for those
people and for those who mistreat them.
>
Identify groups of foreigners
that tend to get treated like Moabites today.
This fall that will probably lead to discussions about refugees and
immigration debates. As you sort through
all the issues these foreigner present with the adults remember the children
are listening too. One good way to share
these concerns in worship is to pray your way around the world praying for
different groups of “foreigners” that are in the news. Use a globe or projected map to give prayers
reality.
>
Introduce the word hospitality defining it as welcoming
strangers. Describe some of your
congregation’s ministries of hospitality to strangers both at the church and in
the larger community.
> Another way to explore this story with children is to
point out after reading it that three people
each did more than they had to in order to help others. Ruth could have stayed in Moab with her
family, but she moved to Bethlehem with Naomi and worked in the field to feed
them. Naomi could have sat in a corner
and felt sorry for herself, but she carefully thought out a plan for Ruth to
find a husband. Boaz could have said
that Ruth and Naomi were not his responsibility, but he went to the man who was
responsible for them and offered to take them into his own home. Children struggle to learn to “do more than
they have to do” to make life better for people around them. These three are models promoting such loving
care and pointing out that such care often works out for those who care as well
as those being cared for.
This
theme also runs through the stories of the widow who fed Elijah and the widow
who put her last two coins in the offering plate.
> Laura Strauss in 2012 sent us all to the relationship
between Shrek
and Donkey as a parallel to this story. They did not choose each other, but got stuck
together. Ruth didn't CHOOSE Naomi, nor did she CHOOSE Boaz - but she
loved them, even so. She was faithful to them, though she could have just gone
home to her mother's house or picked a path that didn't include Boaz. She
chooses to love those whom God has placed in her life, those whom she is
'stuck' with, and God blessed those relationships.
> To present this story with all the rather unfamiliar
details, devote
the sermon to a dialog between an older Ruth and Boaz recalling
it and musing over it together.
Psalm 127
The psalmist here reminds
worshipers of something most children assume, that they can trust someone else
to provide for them. It is usually their
parents, but trusting parents leads them to trusting God. This is not something children can
articulate, so I’d skip this psalm for the children.
1 Kings 17:8-16
> This story is simple and simply presented. To get the attention of the children before
reading it, produce a
bottle of cooking oil with only a little bit left in the bottom and a bag of
flour rolled down indicating there is not much left in it. Display them and tell worshipers that today’s
story begins with a mother and son who have only that much oil and flour left
in their kitchen – nothing else, no eggs, no meat, no peanut butter, nothing –
and no hope of getting anything else.
Then read the story.
> To help children follow this story turn it into readers’
theater or a simple skit using the script below. The readers could stand in place to
read. Or, the narrator could read from
the lectern while Elijah and the widow meet at the center to converse and walk
off to the side together. Though he has
no speaking part, include a young boy as the widow’s son. He may simply stand beside the widow or hold
her hand.
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1 Kings 17:8-16
Narrator: Then the word of the LORD came to Elijah,
saying, "Go now to Zarephath, which belongs to Sidon, and live there; for
I have commanded a widow there to feed you." So he set out and went to Zarephath. When he
came to the gate of the town, a widow was there gathering sticks; he called to
her and said,
Elijah: Bring me a little water in a vessel, so that I may drink.
Narrator: As she was going to bring it, he called to her and said,
Narrator: As she was going to bring it, he called to her and said,
Elijah: Bring me a morsel of bread in your hand.
Widow: As the LORD your God lives, I have nothing baked, only a handful of meal in a jar, and a little oil in a jug; I am now gathering a couple of sticks, so that I may go home and prepare it for myself and my son, that we may eat it, and die.
Elijah: Do not be afraid; go and do as you have said; but first make me a little cake of it and bring it to me, and afterwards make something for yourself and your son. For thus says the LORD the God of Israel: The jar of meal will not be emptied and the jug of oil will not fail until the day that the LORD sends rain on the earth.
Narrator: She went and did as Elijah said, so that she as well as he and her household ate for many days. The jar of meal was not emptied, neither did the jug of oil fail, according to the word of the LORD that he spoke by Elijah.
Widow: As the LORD your God lives, I have nothing baked, only a handful of meal in a jar, and a little oil in a jug; I am now gathering a couple of sticks, so that I may go home and prepare it for myself and my son, that we may eat it, and die.
Elijah: Do not be afraid; go and do as you have said; but first make me a little cake of it and bring it to me, and afterwards make something for yourself and your son. For thus says the LORD the God of Israel: The jar of meal will not be emptied and the jug of oil will not fail until the day that the LORD sends rain on the earth.
Narrator: She went and did as Elijah said, so that she as well as he and her household ate for many days. The jar of meal was not emptied, neither did the jug of oil fail, according to the word of the LORD that he spoke by Elijah.
> Children, like people of all ages, think they will share when they have more than enough for
themselves. AND, they
tend to think they never have quite enough.
This story insists that even when you are down to nothing, you can still
share. Eight days after Halloween, the
candy stashes are gone or almost gone.
Talk about when it is easier to share, the day after Halloween when you
have LOTS of candy or when you are down to your last two pieces. The answer is that it is just as easy either
time. All you have do is decide to share. Do be careful to avoid implying that if they
share all their remaining Halloween candy, the stash will miraculously never
run out!
Psalm 146
This psalm is suggested for
both last week and this week. In the USA
there are local elections coming this week.
On November 10 some, including children, will be happy about the outcomes. Others will be disappointed. Verses 3-4 speak to both groups. For the children add mayors, aldermen, school
board members, etc. to “the princes.”
Note that no matter who won or lost, we still depend most on God’s power
and love. It could be read in unison or
responsively using the script below. The
script replaces all the “hes” with “the Lord”
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Psalm 146
LEADER: Praise
the Lord!
Praise
the Lord, my soul!
ALL: I
will praise him as long as I live;
I
will sing to my God all my life.
LEADER: Don’t put your trust in human leaders;
no human
being can save you.
When they die, they return to the dust;
on
that day all their plans come to an end.
ALL or ALTERNATING GROUPS or ALL READ “THE LORD” WITH
LEADER COMPLETING THE SENTENCE
The Lord created heaven, earth, and sea,
and
all that is in them.
The
Lord keeps
every promise;
The Lord judges in favor of the oppressed
The
Lord gives
food to the hungry.
The
Lord sets
prisoners free
The Lord gives sight to the blind.
The
Lord lifts
those who have fallen;
The
Lord loves
righteous people.
The Lord protects the strangers who live in our
land;
The
Lord helps
widows and orphans,
but
takes the wicked to their ruin.
LEADER: The Lord is king forever.
Your God, O Zion, will reign for all
time.
ALL: Praise
the Lord!
Based on TEV
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Hebrews 9:24-28
> The Hebrews readings are getting quite repetitive to
me. I also am finding as I get toward
the end of the series that the Christ words
poster/banner is harder to maintain. This week’s verses suggest one of several
theme words. Depending on what you have
done to date and your direction today, try…
ETERNAL or FORVER - as in Christ is present with us
always. This word was used in Proper 25, so check there for ideas related to
alpha and omega symbols in the sanctuary and singing “the time hymn” – Our God
Our Help in Ages Past. Or, highlight and
explain the line “as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be” in the
Gloria Patri.
FORGIVING - as in
the reason Christ died was to forgive us.
ONCE AND FOR ALL
- as in Christ died to forgive every one of us.
We are safe in Christ’s loving forgiveness. (See Proper 26.)
Do remember all the previous
cautions about children being offended by all the Hebrews talk about killing animals
in order to get God to forgive them.
Mark 12:38-44
> To grab the attention of children and to emphasize the comparison of the teachers of
the Law and the widow, read verses 38-40 in proud tones and with arrogant
gestures from the lectern. Then, taking
your Bible with you, move to the offering plates to read verses 41-44 about the
widow’s gift in simpler more straight-forward tones.
JESUS MAFA. The Widow's Mite, from Art in the Christian Tradition, a project of the Vanderbilt Divinity Library, Nashville, TN. http://diglib.library.vanderbilt.edu/act-imagelink.pl?RC=48392 [retrieved October 7, 2015]. |
> Use this picture and one of your
offering baskets/plates to compare the different ways of collecting money. Note what is
the same and different about them, i.e. their size, location, and when people
contributed to them. Then insist that
the money put in both was used in similar ways, i.e. to pay for the worship
services and to take care of people who needed God’s loving care. Then, read the story from the gospel.
Out of holiday season the easiest place to get this book is your public library. The art in this copy is very dated, but I am not sure you need to share any art, just read the words. |
> Many commentators insist that this is more about the
church’s tendency to recognize the rich and powerful while ignoring those on
the margins than it is about the significance of the widow’s small gift. They connect it with God responding to Ruth
and Naomi on the margins in their day.
Build on their theme by describing one or two of your congregation’s ministries to
people (especially women) on the margins of your town.
> Challenge children to put at least some
of their very own money in the offering plate. Suggest they
think about their birthday money, money they have earned or money they have
been given to spend as they wish. Be
clear you are not talking about the money parents give them to put in the
offering or about money they are given for other specific purposes – just money
that is theirs to spend however they wish.
Point out that it may not be much, but that by giving it now they are
starting to build habits for their whole life.
Insist that it is no easier to give money when you have lots of it than
it is when you have little. Use the
widow as an example.
>
Alexander
Who Used to be Rich Last Week, by Judith Viorst, describes one
little boy (yes, the same Alexander of Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible,
Very Bad, No Good Day) who spends money given him by his grandparents in a
series of very silly ways. In the end he
is left with nothing of value. Read it or
a couple of pages of it today to explore using money on things that are
important rather than just spending it on anything we think we want at the
moment.
> Faith Formations Journeys suggests giving children each 2 pennies
after talking about all the stuff we have and instructing them to put one in
the offering plate and keep one as a reminder of this story. Go to there for details. I might leave out the discussion about all
our stuff and focus on the story and the pennies. To avoid the confusion about the woman
putting in both her pennies and the children being asked to put in only one of
theirs, give the pennies out separately.
Give one penny to each child with instructions to put it in the offering
plate remembering the widow. Then give
each child a second penny to take home as a reminder of the story. Maybe have them put that penny in their shoe
or a pocket. This will be most effective
when done just before the offering is collected in worship.
just wanted to say, spelled out "LOVE" (adapted a bit, but basically your suggestions) yesterday morning as part of my children's message, and people really responded positively to it! Thanks for a great idea!
ReplyDeleteI used the LOVE body spelling over a year ago and the children and the congregation LOVED it and remember it. I am back today struggling with Elijah in the Narrative Lectionary and once again Carolyn Brown has come through with just the right idea and tone. Thank you so very much. You are a blessing.
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