U Children are fascinated by this story. It is however rather long and hard for them to
follow as it is read. To help them, prepare
a class of older children to act the story out as Peter tells it reading from
the lectern. Simple costumes and
props are a plus, but not essential. The
children bring the story to life by making visual all the moving around as the
story unfolds. In a more playful
pantomime, a set of children might stand behind Peter and lower a small sheet
(maybe a crib sheet) filled with stuffed animals or plastic food from the
nursery. In a more formal setting, the
sheet may be left to listeners’ imaginations with Peter simply looking up,
showing first puzzlement, then shaking his head “no” at the appropriate places.
U Another way to tell this story is to read “Cornelius
Becomes A Christian” from The Family Story Bible, by Ralph
Milton.
U No matter how you read or present this story, it is important
to explain the problems between Jews and Gentiles in simple terms before
reading. It can be as simple as,
“Today we are hearing a story about Peter and Cornelius. Peter was a Jew. Cornelius was a Gentile. Jews did not like or trust Gentiles. Because Gentiles would eat foods that Jews
would not, Jews would not eat with Gentiles or even drink from a cup that a
Gentile had used. Knowing that, listen
to what happened between Peter and Cornelius.”
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U Children who are often very picky about what they
eat, even what the people they eat with eat, are fascinated by this story. It is an opportunity to help them be more open
to people who eat foods they do not.
To start this discussion present a variety of foods. They could be a collection of food samples
from the grocery store, plastic foods from the nursery kitchen toys, a
collection of pictures of foods, or wooden shapes like those in the photo. Identify which of the foods children would or
would not eat. Talk honestly about how
hard it can be to eat foods that look or smell very different from what you are
used to eating. Then retell this story
insisting that God was asking Peter to eat whatever his Gentile host Cornelius
served him. Without going into details
of kosher law, note that Peter had never eaten pork or ham and had been told
since he was a little kid that good people just did not eat anything that came
from a pig. Imagine him tasting ham for
the first time knowing with his head that God said it was OK, but …. Wonder if he liked it, noting that sometimes
we like new foods and other times we do not.
Then, talk about eating new food with refugee families from other countries. Point out that being willing to eat someone
else’s new food is one way we make friends with them.
If
you are doing a series on Easter people, Peter is an Easter person who met
new people and ate new foods to share God’s love with people. We are called to do likewise.
U If you celebrate communion today, highlight
phrases in the Invitation to the Table that welcome all kinds of people. Take time to name specific people and groups
who are included in this general welcome.
For fun, ask, “Is ___ welcome at this Table?” waiting for worshipers to
reply before repeating the question with another name. Start naming people like the worshipers in
the room, but proceed to people with whom those people would be less
comfortable. Conclude by repeating the
Invitation as stated in the liturgy.
U God’s Dream, by Desmond Tutu and Douglas Carlton Abrams, describes God’s dream of a
world in which children of all colors and cultures live together in peace. It is beautifully illustrated and has a rather
complex story line. So, especially with
younger children, I’d read just a few selected pages. Today I’d start with “God dreams that every
one of us will see that we are all brothers and sisters…” and may or may not
read the last two pages about God’s rainbow smile. This allows you to explore the pictures and focus
on one key idea. (The whole book can be
read aloud in just less than 5 minutes.)
U “They’ll Know We Are Christians By Our Love” with its repeated lines is the easiest song for
younger children to sing in response to this story. Older elementary readers can sing along on “Help
Us Accept Each Other” if the words “accept” and “acceptance” are
pointed out and defined as “be friends with” before you sing it.
U Let’s All Join In, a book of wonderfully illustrated poems by Quentin
Blake, is a book to savor and discuss with a small group of children who can
see the details in the illustrations.
For today, use only the last poem that notes that whenever the house
needs cleaning, a mouse needs catching, granny is fainting, or a big cake needs
eating “we all join in” and maybe the first poem about how much “better” things
are when everyone adds their particular music or angry noise together. Identify all the different ways people help
in the last poem to celebrate the diversity of ways of doing things that
Cornelius and his Gentile friends added to the lives of Peter and his Jewish
friends in today’s story.
Psalm 148
U Help a class of older elementary school children
prepare to read the psalm as the call to worship. The parts of Readers 5 and 6 could be divided
between 2 children each to allow for more readers if needed. (This not only gives children a leadership
role in worship, it also gets their entire families into the sanctuary during
the long “after Easter, but still in school” season that can drag when Easter
is early as it is this year.)
I I I
I I I I I I I I I I
Psalm 148
All
Readers:
Praise the Lord!
Reader 1:
Praise the Lord
from the heavens;
praise
him in the heights!
Reader
2:
Praise him, all his angels;
praise him, all
his host!
Reader
3:
Praise him, sun and moon;
praise
him, all you shining stars!
Reader
4:
Praise him, you highest heavens,
and
you waters above the heavens!
Let
them praise the name of the Lord,
for he commanded and they were created.
He established them forever and ever;
he fixed their
bounds, which cannot be passed.
Reader
5:
Praise the Lord from the earth,
you
sea monsters and all deeps,
fire and hail, snow and frost,
stormy wind
fulfilling his command!
Mountains and all hills,
fruit
trees and all cedars!
Wild animals and all cattle,
creeping things
and flying birds!
Reader
6:
Kings of the earth and all peoples,
princes
and all rulers of the earth!
Young men and women alike,
old and young
together!
Let them praise the name of the Lord,
for
his name alone is exalted;
his
glory is above earth and heaven.
He has raised up a horn for his people,
praise
for all his faithful,
for
the people of Israel who are close to him.
All Readers:
Praise the Lord!
NRSV
I I I
I I I I I I I I I I
U To keep the Easter praises going, display a colorful,
even glittery poster of the word “Praise!” (Perhaps a children’s or youth class could
create one.) Before the Call to Worship
talk about and define praise as saying all the wonderful things that are true
about a person. Note how saying those
things helps us remember how special that person is. Then suggest that worshipers watch for times
we praise God in worship today. Give
children gold or yellow markers with which to draw a star or smiley face in
their printed order of worship each time they hear us praise God. Older children will put theirs by the correct
item in the order of worship. Younger
children will simply decorate their paper with stars or smiley faces. If you do this also try one or two of the
following:
U Point out that we start every worship time singing a
praise hymn. Briefly explain why and
describe how the one you will sing today praises God.
U Sing “All Creatures of Our God and King.” The Alleluias can be sung by even non-readers
when they are encouraged to sing them.
It also recalls the Earth Day emphasis of the past week.
U Sing “Earth and All Stars” pointing out
the interesting very modern call to test tubes (or maybe the scientists who use
them) to praise God. Older children
delight in finding such “today” references in a hymn.
U If you sing the Doxology regularly take time to
review the words together. Say the words
together inviting worshipers to clap each time they say the word “praise.” Put each phrase into your own words
identifying the beings who are called to praise God and the reasons for
praising God. Then sing the song
together.
Revelation 21:1-6
For most children life is new
every day, so the promise of a new heaven and new earth is not particularly
important to them. It is probably easier
to explore specific sections of this vision than the whole image.
U There is no rainbow in this vision, but the
vision and the rainbow carry the same message. And, the rainbow may communicate the message
more clearly to children. Most children
love to draw and wear rainbows, but few know that rainbows are codes/symbols
for hope. This is a chance to introduce
that – without getting into the details of the Noah story. Simply ask children when we can see a rainbow. Can we see one on a sunny day? No, we only see a rainbow after a storm. When we see a rainbow we remember that no
matter how scary a storm is, God is with us.
(Give out rainbow stickers or tattoos to make this connection more
memorable.)
U This text is most often read at funerals. To do a little worship education about
funerals, describe a funeral as a sad - happy worship time held when a person
dies. Briefly describe the sad feelings
we have when some has died. Note that
there are lots of tears at funerals as we try to let all the sadness out. That is why we often read verses 3 and
4. Read the verses and explain how they
remind us that the tears and sadness are not the end. Jesus has promised us that a day will come
when no one will ever cry again and pain and death won’t happen. It helps to remember that when we are crying
now. Knowing that can make us at least a little happy even when we are really sad. Older children can apply this message
to other times when they are reduced to tears.
NOTE: Today children often hear about funerals long
before they ever attend one. Because
they recognize the deep sadness that goes with them, they are often frightened
when they attend one for the first time.
We prepare them for this experience when we talk about funerals when one
is not eminent.
U Sing ”Canto de Esperanza” (Song of Hope) which
comes from Argentina in response to this text and in honor of the new pope who
also comes from Argentina.
John 13:31-35
U The first verses of this reading only make sense when
read in the context of the foot-washing and betrayal that proceed it and the
predicted denials that follow it.
Children hear and explore their meaning most easily on Maundy
Thursday. So, today, I’d omit them and read only
the new commandment (verses 34-35) linking it to the Peter and
Cornelius story. Peter learned to
welcome and love Cornelius and other Gentiles who he previously thought were
unworthy of his love or God’s love.
U If you create prayers about loving one another in
demanding situations to which the congregation responds with the new
commandment, be sure to include situations that will be familiar to children
using words they will recognize. For
example, when everyone is mad at each other in the family…, when friends are
fighting…, when someone at work or school is making your life really miserable…,
or when a friend has done something that really hurt your feelings “on purpose”….
U If you did not do it during Lent, give out felt
hearts for worshipers to wear in their shoes or carry in their pockets this week
as a reminder to love one another as Jesus loves us.
U I am feeling odd about not adding all sorts of
resources for exploring this command in general, but really do think that on
this day it is an echo of the themes in the other texts. So, I am going to leave it here – unless I
hear from bunches of you saying that you are making it the focus of the day and
want “love one another” resources.
FYI - I am now working on The Seventh Sunday of Easter and suggesting on that day reading the part of God's Dream that I omit for today. So, you may want to read only part of the book today and promise to read the other part in two weeks.
ReplyDeleteWe have been using the idea of "code words" in REvelation as our children's themes. So this week, I'm going to use "the new Jerusalem" as the image of the church. A city, a community, takes many different people to make it run well...police, street workers, trashmen, store owners, teachers, electricians, residents, etc....God brings them all together in perfection in the new Jerusalem. In our church, we are brought together to serve God. This leads to the inclusion of everyone, even those we rarely think about or think should be excluded (Acts text)and helps us to hear the command from Jesus in John in a new way.
ReplyDeleteThat kind of community is indeed worth decoding - especially in the wake of both West, Texas and Boston where lots of the community people you list came together to respond to trouble.
DeleteCarolyn, thank you so much for your great ideas! I love the suggestion of the felt hearts, and will be including that as a take-away for my CLOW kids this weekend. God bless you for all the help you are providing to us new-bees to Children's Liturgy of the Word!
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