> This story of Jacob’s dream in the wilderness assumes that readers know how Jacob came to be alone in the desert. Most children do not. There are several ways to provide this context.
> Before reading it, remind worshipers of the feuding brothers we met last week and tell the story of Jacob and his mother tricking father Isaac into giving him Esau’s blessing (Genesis 27). One way to do this is to invite the children forward and tell the story in your best storyteller style. End with Rebekah hurrying Jacob away from the furious Esau out into the desert with directions to his Uncle Laban’s house – a long way away. Then send them back to their seats to listen to what happened next as you read today’s story from the Bible.
> Two Bible story books set the story of Jacob’s dream in context without going into the details of the theft of the blessing.
“A Wonderful Dream” in Children of God Storybook Bible, by Archbishop Desmond Tutu, is the shortest version and can be read in under 2 minutes. It emphasizes Jacob’s sense of lostness in the desert and God’s promise to be with him everywhere. The prayer at the bottom of the story, “Dear God, help me to see that the whole world is your home.” can start a discussion of all the places we meet God.
“Jacob’s Dream” in The Family Story Bible, by Ralph Melton, is longer (reads aloud in about 4 minutes) but contains more interesting details. It begins “Jacob was running away. He had cheated his brother and lied to his father. He was afraid….”
> As worship homework give young worshipers (or all worshipers) small rocks to take with them this week. Challenge them to place the stone somewhere where they feel they felt God close saying “God is in this place.” (A garden shop is a good place to find such stones.)
FYI, I actually put together a script for the combined stories of the theft and the dream in the wilderness. It seemed a natural follow up especially if four readers had read the story about this family the week before. All I did was remove the “he saids” and she saids” from the NRSV. The resulting script was really long and sounded rather hackneyed – sort of like a poorly written soap opera. So, I’m not posting it. If you want to present this dramatically, you probably need to do some rewriting of the biblical text.
Genesis 28:10-19a and Psalm 139:1-12, 23-24
Jacob says “Surely the Lord is in this place and I did not know it.” The Psalmist says that God knows me completely and is with me wherever I go.
>Instead of gathering prayer concerns, gather where I will be or what I will be doing this week statements from worshipers of all ages. Start it by describing briefly someplace you will be or something you will do during the coming week, then saying “Surely the Lord is in this place.” Ask one or two others to say where they will be responding to each with “Surely the Lord is in this place.” Then, hear statements from the congregation. Depending on the number of worshipers, you (or the whole congregation) can repeat the phrase after each statement or wait until all the plans for the week are named before repeating the phrase for the group.
> The Runaway Bunny, by Margaret Wise Brown, is a conversation between a young bunny who is planning to run away and his mother who promises to come after him no matter where he goes. In the end he decides he might as well stay home. There is an easy connection between the mother bunny and God who comes after us and supports wherever we go. It can be read aloud in 3 or 4 minutes - unless you take time to look at the art and ponder it a bit with worshipers.
The book could be read as a bedtime story for Jacob as he falls asleep away from home with a rock for a pillow in the middle of the desert or it can be read as another poet’s version of Psalm 139.
> Saint Patrick’s Breastplate is yet another way of saying what the psalmist says and what Jacob learned in the desert. Introduce it to children by inviting them to copy your motions as you read it slowly. Use it again at the benediction either leading the whole congregation in the movements or asking the children to come stand with you and lead the congregation in the benediction.
Christ with me (hug yourself),
Christ before me (both palms up in front of you),
Christ behind me (arms behind you),
Christ in me hands over heart),
Christ beneath me (spread legs and firm your stance),
Christ above me (hands over head),
Christ on my right (hand out to right),
Christ on my left, hand out to left)
Christ when I lie down make a pillow with your hands and lay your head in it),
Christ when I sit down (sit down), Christ when I arise (stand up),
Christ in the heart of every man who thinks of me (point to head),
Christ in the mouth of everyone who speaks of me (point to mouth),
Christ in every eye that sees me (point to eyes),
Christ in every ear that hears me (point to ears.
Wisdom of Solomon 12:13, 16-19 or
> The TEV offers the easiest translation to understand and connect to the New Testament readings.
13 All things are under your care and there is no other god to whom you must justify your decisions. 16 Your strength is the source of justice. You can show mercy to everyone, because you are the Lord of all. 17 You show your strength when people doubt that your power is perfect, and you punish anyone who knows your power but dares to ignore it. 18 Even though you have absolute power, you are a merciful judge. You could take action against us whenever you like, but instead you rule as with great patience. 19 By the things you have done you have taught your people that a person who is righteous must also be kind. You have given your people abundant hope by allowing them to repent of their sins.
> Verses 18 and 19 are key for children. Before reading them, present 2 word posters. One features the words STRENGTH and POWER. The other features the words MERCIFUL, KIND, and PATIENCE. Discuss what the two sets of words mean, then challenge worshipers to listen for what the writer is saying about these words. Together identify the writer’s message that God is the strongest being in the universe and has absolute power over us and the whole world, but treats us with forgiving love and kindness.
This declaration about God’s power is not as readily understood by children as the Wisdom of Solomon verses are. So, I’d go with them.
> Verse 15 especially in the NRSV is filled with language that comes up frequently in assurances of pardon that follow prayers of confession in worship. Use this as an opportunity for some worship education. Write the verse on a series of small posters as below. Give each one to a child asking them to stay standing in place facing the congregation. As you present each one, talk about what it means. For today, offer a series of prayers of confession. After each one, the congregation reads the verse from the posters.
The Verse Its Meaning
But you, O Lord, are a God You ARE god!
Merciful and gracious, You forgive us when we mess up
slow to anger and You don’t get mad at us
even when we deserve it
abounding in steadfast love You love us ALWAYS
> The idea of being a full member of God’s family is the most child-accessible idea in this passage. Do not however, expect children to hear it as the text is read. Instead, talk about what it means to be a member of a family. On the good days family members take care of each other and enjoy being together. Families make their home together. Some families run a business together, some garden together, some share interests and concerns that they work on together. They celebrate holidays and sometimes go on vacations together. Even on the bad days, families take care of each other and work together. If someone in the family gets sick or if there isn’t enough money, everyone in the family is involved. Then read the Good News Translation of verses 14-17 in which the family language is much clearer. The key points are
1. God doesn’t say to us that we can be God’s slaves or servants or even that God will keep us around as long as we do well. Instead God says that we are part of the family now and forever, no matter what.
2. Because we are part of God’s family, we can expect to enjoy the happy days in the family. But we must also be ready to stick with the family when the going gets hard. We have to take care of members of the family who need us and we have to stand up for the family. When I was growing up and wanted to do something that my parents knew I should not, I often said, “but all the other kids are….” to which my father frequently replied, “but you are not all the other kids. You are a Carter girl and the Carters do not….”
> If you are also reading the story of Jacob, point out that even after all he did God did not kick Jacob out of the family. Instead, God promised to stick with him throughout his life and even told him that through him everyone in the world would be blessed. Jacob is a good person to remember when we feel like we should be kicked out of God’s family.
Matthew 13:24-30, 36-43
> Separate the parable in verses 24-30 from the explanation in 36-43 as they are read in worship. Consider omitting the explanation in verses 36-43. Instead talk about the parable on your own. You can get to Jesus’ point and avoid all the apocalyptic language.
|Children would create more|
interesting and detailed faces.
> Have the parable (verses 24-30) pantomimed by children as it is read. The good seed wear happy face masks or happy faces drawn on paper plates attached to short dowels. The bad seed wear mean face masks or mean faces drawn on paper plates attached to short dowels. As they take their places both make themselves small. When it comes time to grow they rise up close together with the faces toward the congregation. One or two adults serve as the reapers separating the good from the bad and standing them in groups on opposite sides of the staging area.
> Before reading this parable, display a collection of photographs of blooming plants. Ask worshipers to identify those that are flowers and those that are weeds. Include a few like a dandelion that are familiar weeds. But also include some questionable ones, e.g. Queen Anne’s Lace used to be considered a weed, but is now grown in some gardens. Conclude that it is very hard to know what is weed and what is a desirable flower. Then read the parable.
> Or, challenge a gardener to create a floral display in which weeds and flowers are intermingled. During worship have a conversation with him or her about which are which. Note how hard it is for most people, even good gardeners, to tell them apart. Then read the parable.
> In the Harry Potter books there are several evil people (total weeds), but there are many more people whose loyalties are questionable. Severus Snape was a teacher everyone hated and seemed often to be on the side of evil. In the end he is proven to be a hero. Repeatedly during the books, Dumbledore warns Harry that his dislike of Snape may not be fair. Likewise, the whole weedy Malfoy family (Lucius, Narcissa, and Draco) in the end is left among the bystanders. They harbored serious prejudices against all who were not pure-blooded wizards and were allied with Lord Voldemort, but they loved each other and sacrificed to save others in several crisis situations. J. K. Rowling, like Jesus, warns people not to write other people off as “evil weeds.” In the parable Jesus insists that it is God who judges. We are to withhold judgment because we cannot see everything.