Worshiping with a child is a
team sport, i.e. something you do together.
And, like all sports having a collection of strategies and tricks to
pull out as you play makes worship more interesting, fun and satisfying for all
the players – including the parent/coach.
That means parents need strategies for helping children listen to scripture
as it is read in worship.
“Hearing” and “getting” the scripture is
important. The sermon and most of the songs and prayers
of the day are built directly on this text.
If you don’t hear the scripture, you’re going to miss a lot of the rest
of worship too. Personally, I think most
of the responsibility for helping children “hear” the story lies with the
worship planners. It is their challenge
to devise ways to present the scripture that attract and hold the attention of
children as well as adults. But parents
can also get in the act. Below is a list
of strategies with which parents, even parents who do not consider themselves
great Bible students, can draw children into hearing scripture with their
congregation.
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Keep a Bible story book in their worship
bag.
When the reading is a story, find it in the book for the child to read
or reread during the sermon. If all the
children of the church are given the same Bible story book, page numbers of
corresponding stories can be printed with the text location in the order of
worship.
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Encourage older
children to read along in Bibles by providing them with bookmarks with which to mark the passages. As everyone is getting settled in before
worship they can find the texts listed in the printed order of worship.
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Turn a bookmark or a bulletin on its
side help young readers follow along
with you as the preacher reads the text. (Think about this: when a parent helps a child
follow the words the worship leader reads all three become a community sharing
the scripture, like I said it’s a team sport.)
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Challenge
children to draw a picture in response to a
scripture by asking a question, e.g. how do you think that
looked? Or, how do you think Jesus
looked when he said that? Drawings can
be made in margins of bulletins or in spiral bound worship journals brought to
worship each week.
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When you
recognize a familiar story or text about to be read, say something about it to your child and
add the word listen. “Listen
to this, it is one of my favorite stories about Jesus.” “These words were read at your mother and my
wedding. Listen.” Even, “Listen to this. I never have figured out why….”
There have got to be more
strategies. Add those you know in the
Comments section.
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