COMPLAIN COMPLAIN
COMPLAIN
There is a lot of complaining
in today’s texts. The freed Hebrews
complain about the lack of food in the desert, Jonah complains about God
forgiving the Ninevites, and the first hired workers complain about how they
are paid. If you worship around this
theme, recall the 21 Days with No Complaining Campaign. It was a big deal in 2007 – that was before the first 21st century recession! Even then there was lots to
complain about. So a preacher gave worshipers purple bracelets to wear. They were to take theirs off every time they complained until they had worn it for a full
day. The goal was to go 21 days without
complaining. For more details and a
source for the bracelets go to 21 Days with No Complaining Campaign.
The Texts
Exodus 16:2-15
L To
make this story easier for children to follow I would omit verses 6-8. They are basically repeated in a slightly
different form in verses 9-12.
L Before
reading the story show worshipers the piece of plastic fried chicken and slice
of plastic bread or dish of plastic rice.
(To secure these, formally borrow them from the children in a
kindergarten class telling them how you will use them. If the church does not have plastic food,
many preschoolers have it at home. Ask
around to get a loan for worship. The
involved preschoolers will feel instantly more connected to worship. As a last resort buy a set to contribute to
the nursery at a local store or order from Amazon.) Tell
worshipers that this is a story about food and encourage them to listen for
what the people ate. After the reading
or after a sermon exploring the story, place the chicken and bread where they
belong in the Moses display.
L If
you are going to explore the lack of trust of the people and their whining, set
the stage for the story by recalling in detail God’s deliverance and nurture
something like…
When
the people were made slaves by Pharaoh and cried out to God to save them, God
sent them Moses to lead them out of slavery.
When
Pharaoh refused to let them go, God sent plagues to help pharaoh change his
mind.
When
Pharaoh did not let the people go in response to the frogs, the gnats, the
darkness, the cattle diseases, or the itchy sores, God staged the Passover and
Moses led the people out of slavery.
When
Pharaoh came after them with his whole army, God opened the sea for them to
cross safely to the other side, away from Pharaoh forever.
You’d
think after all this they would understand, but after they had been walking
across the desert for a while, listen to what happened.
All this detail helps the
children remember the stories you have been telling and prepares them to hear
today’s story in context.
“Give us this day our daily bread…”
L Before
or just after praying the Lord’s Prayer, direct worshipers to the phrase “Give
us this day our daily bread.” Note that it says give US OUR bread rather
than give ME MY bread. Jesus insists
that we pray for everyone. Using a globe
or map point out places where food is a problem. Recall some of the food ministries in which
your congregation participates. And,
pray for all of these. The prayers may
be voiced by one person after exploring all the food spots or the process could
become a responsive prayer of petitions like the following.
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God,
millions of refugees in Iraq and Syria feel just like the slaves in
the wilderness. They are walking miles
and miles across the wilderness searching for food. Animals and armed gangs chase them. Be with your people, God. Keep them safe and guide them to food.
Give us this day our daily bread.
There
are people working hard to get food to your hungry people. They gather food from all over the world and
risk great danger to get it to the people who need it. Protect them.
Keep them safe and help them get the food to those who need it.
Give us this day our daily bread.
God
of the harvest, bring rain and sunshine to crops growing in the fields all
around your world. Give us good harvests
so that people may have food to eat.
Give us this day our daily bread.
Loving
God, teach us to share. So often there
is enough food for everyone. We simply
need to share it. Give us generous
hearts and hands so that we may all eat.
Give us this day our daily bread.
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Psalm 105:1-6, 37-45
Do not use this psalm in
worship until the Exodus text has been read and explored. Before reading it, tell worshipers that this
psalm was written remembering how God led them out of Egypt and fed them in the
wilderness. Urge young worshipers to
listen for words like Egypt, food and quail.
Jonah 3:10-4:11
FYI: Jonah shows up in the
lectionary only here and on the third Sunday of Epiphany in Year B (January 22,
2012). The Epiphany reading tells only
that God sent Jonah to Nineveh the second time and that Nineveh repented. Today’s reading adds Jonah’s preaching in
Nineveh and the story of the vine.
Neither tells about the whale. I
would be tempted to build worship around the whole story on one of these
Sundays.
L Either
take time to read the whole biblical book (it is very short) dramatically
with worshipers following along in pew Bibles.
The whole congregation could read the psalm in chapter 2 in unison.
L Or read
the whole story of Jonah with three readers using Jonah and the
Whale, by Jean Marzollo. Secure and
rehearse two readers – God and Jonah.
God reads all the yellow statements by God, Jonah reads his lines which
are printed around his pictures. You
read the narrator’s text. For ease, omit
the statement by the Ninevites and all the fish in the whale’s belly. Also omit the last page of the book on which
Marzolla goes beyond the biblical story claiming that Jonah did forgive the
Ninevites. If sound allows, have God
stand behind the central table, Jonah sit or stand on the steps off to the
side, and the narrator read from the lectern.
Each one reads from his/her copy of the book.
From The Family Story Bible, illustrated by Margaret Kyle Used by permission. |
L For a
one-reader telling of the whole story try, “The Funny Story of Jonah”
on pages 152-154 in The Family Story Bible, by Ralph Milton. (Reading time: just under 5 minutes)
L Before
reading the story in any form point to Nineveh on a map and explain why
Jonah hated the Ninevites.
L To
respond to the story of Jonah, brainstorm a list of enemies. Mention ISIS and other national enemies
aloud. Invite worshipers to silently
list their own “least favorite people.”
Then lead in prayer for the welfare of those people.
L If
you are exploring the grace theme (see Matthew parable),
point out that Jonah was glad when God gave him grace. He knew he did not deserve to be saved after
running away from God and it was OK with him if God made a plant grow over him
for shade. What was not OK with him was
God giving grace to people he Jonah did not like. He did not want to get what he deserved, but
he wanted his enemies to get what they deserved. Children can see the problem with that – even
though they understand Jonah’s angry wish.
Psalm 145:1-8
J This
psalm praising God begs for dramatic reading that includes the
congregation. It is an acrostic, an
alphabet poem. Each line begins with the
next letter of the Hebrew alphabet. That
means the verses are independent praises.
So,
Arrange
the psalm for responsive reading between congregation and leader or choir or
between two sides of the congregation.
Or to
enjoy the acrostic nature of the psalm invite the children
forward. Teach them the Hebrew letters
in today’s psalm then with them say the appropriate letter as the congregation
reads each line of the psalm. To
streamline this, work with one class of children in advance then invite them to
lead the psalm with you.
J J J J J J J J J J J J J
PSALM
145:1-8
ALEPH
I will extol you, my God and King,
and bless your name forever and ever.
BET
Every day I will bless you,
and praise your name forever and ever.
GIMEL
Great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised;
his greatness is unsearchable.
DALET
One generation shall laud your works
to another,
and shall declare your mighty acts.
HE
On the glorious splendor of your
majesty,
and on your wondrous works, I will
meditate.
WAW
The might of your awesome deeds shall
be proclaimed,
and I will declare your greatness.
ZAIN
They shall celebrate the fame of your
abundant goodness,
and shall sing aloud of your
righteousness.
HET
The Lord
is gracious and merciful,
slow to anger and abounding in
steadfast love.
New Revised Standard Version
J J J J J J J J J J J J J
J This
is a
good psalm with which to combat complaining. Instead of griping we recall and praise God. Give worshipers mini-posters of it to post in
a prominent place at home for easy reference when they find themselves complaining.
Philippians 1:21-30
On a Sunday with three strong
stories, it is hard to get excited about unpacking this text for children. It requires lots of explaining to get to a
message that does not have a strong connection to their lives.
Verse 27 may
be effectively used as a charge to the congregation just before the
benediction. Preface it with “As Paul
wrote the Christians in Philippi, I charge you….”
Matthew 20:1-16
L Read
this parable from a translation that uses current times (noon and three o’clock)
rather than the old hours of the day (fifth and ninth hour). NRSV and TEV are two such translations.
L Dramatize
the reading of this parable. Before worship find and prepare the
landowner. During worship ask for
volunteers (maybe all children or worshipers of many ages) to help you show
Jesus’ parable to the congregation. You
need a minimum of five volunteers and more is much better. When they arrive at the front, tell them that
they are to be grape pickers in this parable.
Show them how to pick grapes off a vine at shoulder level then stoop to
put them in a basket at their feet.
Repeat the motion with them several times. Tell them that once they are hired to work at
the vineyard, they must keep repeating the motion until the end of the work
day. Then, divide them into five groups
standing a little apart from each other.
Introduce the landowner and point out where the vineyard is. Finally, go to the Bible to read the
parable. As the story unfolds the
landowner moves more and more workers to picking grapes in a row across the
front of the sanctuary in the order in which he hired them. When the time to pay the workers comes, the
landowner hands each worker a large coin (maybe a Mardi Gras coin, a play money
coin, or even a cardboard disk painted gold) starting with last to be hired.
This
could
be the reading of the gospel for the day. In that case at the end of the reading call
for the usual congregational response to the reading of the gospel, thank the
volunteers for their help and send them back to their seats.
Or,
you could
move into the sermon, stepping into the last scene to ask workers hired
at different times how they felt about their day’s work and pay. Only then send them back to their seats and
proceed with your comments.
L “It’s
not fair!” is the frequent
impassioned cry of 7-9 year olds. They
watch what everyone around them is doing and getting and insist that they get
their fair share of the fries, the privileges, and all the other goodies. They totally understand the complaint of the
first hired workers. One of their other
passions – rules – helps them understand Jesus’ point. Walk them through the agreement each group of
workers made when they were hired and what they were paid, then to ask “was
that fair.” Some will suggest that had
they known what the others would be paid for less work, the first hired workers
would not have agreed. Simply insist
that the first hired did not know that and still made the agreement they
did. Because the landowner followed the
rules, the children will grudgingly admit that it was fair. Having admitted that, they can explore the
landowner’s claim that he did not mistreat the first hired. Instead, he was generous to the last
hired.
L Sometimes
it is better to be loving than to be fair. Giving little
kids extra strikes or letting them stand closer to the pitcher in family ball
games is not fair to the older players, but it is loving. Doing a sibling’s chores while he are sick,
is not fair, but it is loving. Giving up
what you want to do on a Saturday afternoon to take care of a younger sibling
is not fair, but it is loving. And,
paying the workers who only worked one hour the same amount you paid the
workers who worked all day, is not fair, but it is loving.
GRACIOUS GRACE GRACEFUL
L If
you use the word GRACE frequently in today’s worship, take time to
introduce it. Display a big poster with
GRACE and possibly GRACIOUS printed in large letters on it. Point out some of the very different meanings
of the word –
-
Grace is a girl’s
name (ask if there is anyone named Grace in the congregation)
-
When a person can
move beautifully (dancing, athletics) we say they have grace or are graceful
-
The prayer we say
before eating is called a grace
-
Giving someone
something they do not deserve, i.e.
- a grace period to turn in homework you did not finish
- a grace period to turn in homework you did not finish
- the
landowner paying the last hired workers a whole day’s wage
- God
forgiving us even when we don’t deserve us
Present the poster and
introduce the word GRACE at the beginning of the service encouraging worshipers
to listen for the word in your worship today.
Refer to it when appropriate during the service.
L Before
singing “There’s A Wideness in God’s Mercy” read through the words
connecting it to God’s love seen in this parable and in the Jonah story. Worshipers of all ages will then pay more
attention to the words as they sing them.
“God’s
love is not like a pie that leaves less for me every time God gives someone
else a slice and more like a joke that gets funnier every time another person
joins the laughing.”
I think a member of my lectionary
study group said this.
It is funny to me that Feasting on the word uses the Philippians text for this week when the gospel is so strong! Am trying to decide if I will follow Sunday school text or preaching text. Hmmm. . . .
ReplyDeleteBecky, a feast is a meal at which there is plenty and diners are not expected to eat everything or even put some of everything on their plate. So, on Sunday night you know how I would go with your decision :) .
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