Since most of us are already thinking
about Lent and Easter, I am posting this introduction to the season now. It gives you an overview of this year and
links to previous posts you might find helpful.
It also reminds you of a few general truths about children during these seasons and of my book
that offers more than fits in this blog.
Most congregations work hard
to include children in Advent and Christmas celebrations. Lent and Easter are another story. Often the children are not expected at and
not even wanted at these worship services.
The hope is that they will hear the stories in church school or at home
and join the congregation celebrating the stories when they are older and
understand them more fully. I think that
is a mistake. The Lent-Easter stories
are the key stories of our faith and the worship services of Lent, Holy Week
and Easter are our high Holy Days.
Children need to be part of them with the entire congregation.
I feel so strongly about this
that I have written a book, Sharing the
Easter Faith With Children.
It includes
The book offers LOTS more than I can put in a blog. So, I encourage you to invest in it. Buy it now and you will have lots of ideas for all the Lenten and Easter services immediately. It is available at many of the usual on-line book sellers and in many religious bookstores.
>information about what children understand about these
stories at each age,
>commentary on the Holy Week and Easter texts from a
child’s point of view,
>detailed plans for Ash Wednesday, Palm Sunday, Maundy
Thursday, Good Friday, and Easter services at which children are expected to be
part of the congregation
>study session plans for parents, teachers, and worship
planners
>an annotated bibliography of children’s literature
related to Lent and Easter
The book offers LOTS more than I can put in a blog. So, I encourage you to invest in it. Buy it now and you will have lots of ideas for all the Lenten and Easter services immediately. It is available at many of the usual on-line book sellers and in many religious bookstores.
But, until you get the book J here are a few ideas about including children in the
congregation’s observation of Lent and celebration of Easter.
> Children can hear the
passion and resurrection stories. From an early age they can be told that
people who were angry with Jesus killed him on a cross, but that God would not
let Jesus stay dead and made him alive again on Easter. Over the years they add the details. The younger the children the more they follow
the emotions of the story rather than the facts. For that reason it is important to always
tell the whole story. Even on Good
Friday, mention the surprise that we know is waiting.
> Children also find
different kinds of good news in the passion and resurrection stories than
adults find in them. Older
preschoolers celebrate God as most powerful super power in the universe and are
glad to be allied with God. Younger
elementary schoolers, who are moving out into the world on their own more and
more, find comfort in the God who knows us and promises to be with us always even
after we die. Older elementary schoolers
identify most strongly with Peter as he lived through Holy Week. Jesus’ forgiveness of the best friend who
betrayed him proves to them that God will forgive anything. Adults find comfort in the promise of new
life. All these different versions of
“the best news” enrich each other when they are woven into the congregation’s
worship.
> Exploring the stories in
the sanctuary in worship gives them more power for children. For example, a
palm parade with other children in a classroom may be a kid thing, but a
triumphant parade in the sanctuary with people of all ages communicates that
this is indeed an important parade.
Hearing the story of the Last Supper is one thing, but celebrating the
Last Supper on the “anniversary” of very night that Jesus invented it with the
whole church brings the story to life.
Same with hearing the crucifixion story on Good Friday or getting up
before sunrise to hear the story outside on Easter Sunday morning.
So, as you begin planning for the season
as a whole, go to the following links for ideas that work every year:
Burying or Hiding the Alleluia for Lent
A Lent Discipline for Families: Taking Worship Home
Weekly Lent Disciplines for Households
Three Reasons to Include Children on Ash Wednesday
An Intergenerational Ash Wednesday Order of Worship
Holy Week Passports for Children and their Families
Celebrating JESUS WEEK
A Lent Discipline for Families: Taking Worship Home
Weekly Lent Disciplines for Households
Three Reasons to Include Children on Ash Wednesday
An Intergenerational Ash Wednesday Order of Worship
Holy Week Passports for Children and their Families
Celebrating JESUS WEEK
Things to Do With Your Child (or Grandchild) During Easter Worship
Welcoming Children to Holy Week Services
Welcoming Children to Holy Week Services
"The Firebird Suite" - an Easter DVD
And looking ahead to Easter Season -
To Keep Easter Visual Add a Ribbon to a Paschal Candle Each Week
And looking ahead to Easter Season -
To Keep Easter Visual Add a Ribbon to a Paschal Candle Each Week
Especially
For Year A
It
is all about God’s Stories this year. The lectionary for Year A matches an Old
Testament and a Gospel story for each week.
The stories are a series of hints or clues about the BIG STORY that is
come during Holy Week and Easter. They
could be a series – “Stories that Shape Us,” maybe.
Lent
1 – The Fall and/or Jesus’ Temptation
Lent
2 – Abraham and Nicodemus – God’s Adventurers
Lent
3 – Moses and the Woman at the Well both find water
Lent
4 – Samuel sees David as God’s King and
Jesus sees the Blind Man and
heals him
Lent
5 – Dry bones come to life in Ezekiel’s vision and
Lazarus comes to life
Lazarus comes to life
Lent
6 – Palm/Passion
Easter
– Mary’s Easter Story – I am with you ALWAYS
That makes this is a good year to focus on stories and storytelling. There are
several possibilities:
> Devote time and energy to telling the stories with flair during
worship. Enlist the help of members of all ages in
reading the stories as readers’ theater, acting them out, using puppets, and
more. Look for suggestions in the weekly
Lenten posts. Invite different people or
groups to work with you on each week.
Or, issue a call for worshipers of all ages to join you every week
during Lent to study and prepare to present the story for that week.
> Select one prop or symbol for each story. Use them to create a growing display as Lent
progresses. This is not a definitive
list, but a possible starter.
Lent
1 – a big plastic apple
Lent
2 – a sandal
(for Abraham and Nicodemus to step out in)
(for Abraham and Nicodemus to step out in)
Lent
3 – staff, pail, or water bottle
Lent
4 – oversize pair of glasses
Lent
5 – a plaster or rubber bone
> Encourage families with children to make story telling their
Lenten discipline. Suggest that they dig out an old Bible Story
Book to read from each day. Or, offer
each family a new book. Children of
God Storybook Bible, by Desmond Tutu, is a good choice for this because it
has approximately the right number of stories for Lent, the stories are very
brief, and the art which was provided by artists around the world is both
attractive and thought-provoking. (It is
not available in paperback and so costs about $16. You will either have to commit to making a
copy available to each family with children as a gift from the church knowing
that they will use it for a long time or encourage families to pay the price as
part of their Lenten commitment. There
are advantages to each approach.)
> And, this takes us beyond worship, but… One could
enrich the season and this theme by creating a series of events in which
participants watch secular films or film clips and explore what those stories
tell us about who we are. This could be
for adults, for teens, or for all ages.
It would all depend on the stories to be told.
Of the lectionary stories for Year A ("Stories that Shape Us," above), I am frustrated that so few are found in so-called children's bibles! No Moses finds water, no dry bones, no Nicodemus, no woman at the well, no John's version of healing the man born blind, no Lazarus. What's a church lady to do?
ReplyDeleteTwo possibilities:
ReplyDelete1. check out The Family Story Bible, by Ralph Milton, which has most of the stories. Find Moses finds water in the story "Special Food." The dry bones are missing.
2. Tell them in your own words, church lady. You know your children so tell them the story as they need to hear it.
And, of course watch this blog. Now that you've pointed out a potential problem I'll be especially looking for ways to tell the story.
You will find those stories (except dry bones from Ezekiel) in the Spark Story Bible (http://sparkbibles.org/)
ReplyDeleteFor the dry bones story, if you are musical I recommend the song Dry Bones by Common Cup Company.
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